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What I Got On Valentine's Day...

I can never remember the details of our fights.

I don’t recall exactly how this one in particular started, or what was said or not said. But I do know our words were like weapons slicing deep into each other’s hearts. Our reactions full of fiery selfishness. And our expressions were loaded with everything but love. This is marriage at its ugliest- two immature, selfish, conceited, and sinful people trying to put someone else first.

Did I mention this was Valentine’s Day morning!

We should have been snuggling up under our duvet cover, playing footsie, and whispering “I love you” into each other’s ears like every other happily married couple.  But instead we were throwing insults, giving silent treatment, and inflicting wounds. Romantic, right?!

I am not sure how we got to that point, but we had spiraling downhill since the night before. We were in a dangerous cycle of unforgiveness. It was something along the lines of, if he won’t show me love…FINE! I won’t give him any respect. 

That night we went to bed still trying to mend our fragile hearts. I thought we had pushed through our little argument. But instead of waking up to a heart-shaped box full of chocolates, I awoke with a heavy heart. There were no kisses or flowers exchanged between us on Valentine’s morning.

 

Our fighting continued to quietly escalate. I treated him like dirt instead of my dear husband, and he found it extremely difficult to even show me he cared me {I don’t blame him!}. The residue from our selfishness was glaringly obvious as I walked out the door to my office… in silence.

During those few hours I was away at the office, I had time to think about my actions, like a two-year old in time-out for throwing a temper tantrum. Stomping feet, slammed doors, and immature sobs, yes…I had done it all in the last 24 hours. I was gaining perspective and so was he…

While doing some work at the office I received a message,

“I miss and love you Charissie. Wish we could start this day over. Can’t wait 4 u 2 b home:)”

His words were my thoughts exactly. He successfully mended the rest of my hurting heart. He still missed me. He still loved me. And I felt the same.  This is marriage at its finest- two immature, selfish, conceited, and sinful people trying to put someone else first.

Marriage makes everyday Valentine’s Day- it’s about falling in love over and over again with the same person. This love is always attempting to turn selfish desires into selfless pursuit.

This Valentine’s Day I got the most romantic gift in the whole world…

Forgiveness.

Or in the words of my husband, “Can we start this day over?”

Six little words that speak more love than red roses, the finest chocolate, and the most elegant candlelit dinner!

 



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